one minute blog: coupling.

this will be the quickest blog ever. and an interesting one. so. kenley is moving to omaha. i'm really excited about it. actually i'm thrilled. as i've talked to different people about it there have been similar comments about coupling.

kenley and i've been long distance for three years and before that we lived in the same city before that for a year. we've never been or wanted to be that couple who only hangs out with other couples. we're just excited to be in the same city.

but the conversation with friends leads to this awkward part where my friend explains that she/he doesn't want our friendship to change because my boyfriend is moving to omaha.

but it got me thinking. there are a lot people in my life who are in some type of couple, too. not a traditional couple either...if it's friends who are roommates or friends who only hang out with certain friends, my friends can easily become those friends as easily as i could become that girl in a relationship.

i think that it's a little frustrating or maybe a little weird that when someone gets in a relationship friends have a hard time adjusting...but when someone is attached at the hip to a friend or friends, it's not the same awkward conversation.

does that make sense? typing this out in a minute doesn't help. :).

but. yeah. kenley is moving. i'm excited. we'll be hanging out with e'ryone, singled and coupled. at the end of the day, they're my friends and i'm their friend.

so. remember, even if you are single there are things/people you are in a relationship that can easily end up posing the same awkward question for me...when will i ever see you again? you're always with x or always doing x.

that's it.

that was two minutes. my bad. scattered.